Hello - I need advice as to whether I sound like an awful person for not wanting my MIL in our lives .
My baby is 2 months old and we had problems with her before he was born - but she seems oblivious to them. To start with she was a horrendous mum to my husband forced him to eat soap when naughty , hit him , took loads of men home and kicked him out to his dad's at 12 for playing his playstation just to name a few . We had a number of miscarriages befoe we had our baby and she went out of her way to be unsupportive . She didn't congratulate or support us when we got engaged or bought our home - but stuck it all over Facebook - she likes to seem like the perfect mum and is obsessed with social media .
Anyway we now have our son any picture my husband has sent to her has gone straight up on Facebook even when we asked her to stop.she's only seen him twice first time she was annoyed I asked them to wear masks and meet outside . She held him for 2 mins after id gotten him to sleep and she physically forced his eyes open . She seen him again yesterday , I passed the baby to my partner to burp him as I was feeding before I new it she'd taken the baby and was forcing the bottle down his neck ,I told her he was full and we kept telling her to wind but she didn't in the end I took him of her he was then sick everywhere and screaming with wind pain. She then put him down in his Moses basket my husband told her to put him on his back etc, well I walked in she'd shoved him on his side and literally threw a blanket on top of him I was livid - she was only here for 30mins. I also had to go into a hospital a few weeks ago for an operation and again she offered no support to my husband whilst I was in .
My body physically hurts when she holds my baby and I cried in the toilet yesterday when she came . My question is I am been unreasonable in saying I don't want us having anything to do with her ? My husband isn't the type to stand up to people .
Thank you !
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Soph30420 · 30/06/2020 11:21
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