So this is a weird one, I'm hoping for some thoughts on this...
When I was 14, I had a really close best friend who I'll call Deb.
I got with my first ever love, I'll call him Dan, who I was crazy about. We lasted for a year together and I truly thought he was 'the one'.
Deb admitted to me one day that she had been with Dan behind my back. It truly broke my heart. He denied everything at first, but eventually admitted he had been sleeping with her for months behind my back! Me and him never had sex, so this was a really hard thing for me to hear. anyway, we broke up and I moved on.
I met other guys and since moved to Australia. I always kept in touch with Deb but years after, we lost touch.
So 25 years later, through Facebook, me and Deb got back in touch.
We had never fallen out over it but lately I find I can't stop thinking about how she never apologized for it!
I tried to broach it with her online but she kept changing the subject.
She's a lonely person these days after having numerous affairs and her children no longer speak to her.
I'm a happily married mum of two boys.
Am I crazy to pursue this 'friendship' or is is something she may not have been able to help? I personally feel she's the type of woman who always wants what she can't have?
So she's now in her 40s, deeply lonely and her husband has full custody of her kids. Her family don't talk to her.
I'm just so confused, I'd love to go back to our friendship but I need her to own up to her actions and admit she was wrong. AIBU?
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My best friend won't admit to her wrong
Holyjebus · 29/06/2020 12:27
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