Reading lots of threads on MN regarding emotional abuse. I'm currently taking space from my relationship, figuring it all out and I'm looking for strangers thoughts. (Feel a bit silly)
His Good points:
- Mature
- Great sense of humour
- Very generous with money, pays for everything
- Very generous with affection
- Big job, successful, ambitious
- loyal, commitment, would never cheat
- On the same page as me, wants a family
- Supports and celebrates my achievements
- Willing to talk, suggested couples counselling
- Does all the blue jobs and shares chores around the house
Bad:
- Easily offended by something small
- Can't argue clean (swearing, shouting)
- Quick tempered in pressured situations
- Workaholic
By no means am I faultless or perfect, I can have my selfish, unreasonable moments and mood swings. However, I'm learning ways to communicate better as a person as I've always had issues like this in previous relationships.