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I'm i overthinking this?

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bluebellll Tue 23-Jun-20 20:56:04

After TTC (trying to conceive) for 7/8 months and now pregnant I can't help but feel my sil is not talking to me as much as she normally would do. Now I understand why because she went had a mc and but it's still hurts me because it's affected our relationship and she no longer contacts me like she used to. Do I give her space and time to process it or do I just accept that we may never be the same again?

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Carlottacoffee Tue 23-Jun-20 21:04:40

I’d just accept it’s how things are for now. I know you feel hurt but it sounds like she is dealing with her own loss by avoiding you.

Concentrate on your new baby she will come around flowers

Scarydinosaurs Tue 23-Jun-20 21:05:47

Give her space. Losing a child is dreadful. Just be patient.

TorkTorkBam Tue 23-Jun-20 21:07:49

Give her space. Don't make her sadness all about you.

JustC Wed 24-Jun-20 08:22:23

Give her space to deal with it. Also not good for you to constantly stress about it while pregnant. Hopefully things will get back ro a better place after a while.

familys2018 Wed 24-Jun-20 08:26:58

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familys2018 Wed 24-Jun-20 08:39:11

Oh shit so sorry 😂 how I wrote this on your theewas I don't know ! Il try do get it taken down now . I ment to post this on the actaully relationship forum xxx

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