Around 4 weeks into dating someone new, he was super keen at the beginning e.g. first four dates but lots of ex issues. On last date, we DTD and ex issues came out - he asked if we could take it slow, lots of messaging instigated by him and suggestions to hang out (we should get a drink/would you like to do something) but no concrete plans made. Happy to do that & see where it goes, he is still broken from bad relationship but seemed to want to give things a go. The effort has wavered a little tho over the last 2 weeks and things have lost momentum.
Chatted over the next week since DTD (all instigated by him) culminating in me sending him some selfies and no reply. 24 hours later, I ask if he wanted to get that drink still and he replies instantly "yes, sounds great, when are you free" etc. He ends up taking time again to reply to my time suggestion (this is normal tho) and I let him know have made other plans as didnt other back, but suggested an alternative evening. He agrees.
Next date now booked in but the messaging is sporadic and not chatty. Things have lost their momentum. I feel weird and am paranoid he is now indifferent? We are also clearly both bored in lockdown! He was acting like I was a complete prize up until 2 weeks ago and now obviously we haven't seen each other since.
Do I bail now or meet him and see how I feel?
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Shall I end it here?
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pandaandap · 22/06/2020 23:38
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