Just found my partner on Fabswingers

TableDesk · 2020-06-22 22:31:58

Not really much to say only im in total shock. I seen an unknown app on his phone, did a bit of research, set up my own account & found him glaringly obvious. If anyone has been on Fabswingers, you will know how "glaringly" I mean. We chatted on FS so I could really tell it was him. It most definitely was. All the traits, same name, location, age etc. Then over messenger, I asked him to call me. He said he was really busy in work & to give him 20mins. I asked him was that because he was busy on FS or because he was genuinely busy? He ignored me for a bit and then messaged me to say yes I was right and he had fucked up. No apology. This was at 2pm today. He hasn't called me, messaged me & is ignoring my calls and messages. I am full on rage. Like never before have I felt rage like this. (Luckily, for him) He is working away at the minute in another country so I can't physically see him. He is not due home til 4th July. Oh and it's my birthday tomorrow. Fucking great. I don't know what advice really I'm looking, I'm just venting I suppose. Thankfully no financial ties or kids etc. I'm at the I want anger stage. I want him to talk to me. I want to ask him all manner of questions, but he won't even give me that. I'm furious. I have literally rocked from one anxiety attack to the next all day. I want to tell his mother. Tell his boss he's fucking about at work. I want to order him a moon pig card with his fabswingers bio on it. I want to order him a cushion with his username on it & a quote from one of his verifications. Why are men such bastards?

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