Around 4 weeks in with someone new, enjoying the chemistry etc but it is clear he has ex issues. Taking it for what it is atm/looking for something casual myself. He is not the biggest texter and has been a bit all over the place lately but suggested getting a drink several times so I asked him when would work. He replied immediately (within the minute) asking when would suit me. A bit of back and forth chit-chat and I asked if x time would work and sent a funny picture. He got back in touch this morning (24 hours later/about 6 hours before time of said drink) saying hey hows it going, shall I come over to xyz location (near you) for the drink?
I replied saying that as I hadnt heard from re times for about 24 hours I assumed we werent on and had agreed to meet a friend instead (the truth, I had thought maybe he was having second thoughts and didnt want to chase). But perhaps we could do xyz day instead?
He replied saying "oh sorry! I hadn't actually realised that I hadn't replied!! [laughing emoji] Yeah sure either works for me! How is your day?"
This has really annoyed me. Do I respond and if so how?
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pandaandap · 21/06/2020 17:11
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