I’m in a long distance relationship with my partner who lives in the same country 4 hours away. We haven’t been able to see each other during lock down but are at that stage where we are wondering if it can/will progress. We are both late forties and I am independent with my home, good job and three children who are still at school, and see their dad here. My partner is also independent and lives alone. Both of us are wary of making a move and I won’t move my children from school at present. We get on incredibly well but I worry that he blows hot and cold with what he wants after his divorce ended badly.
We both think we are the right person but in the wrong location and I also think that if we were to give up we could be throwing away our chance of happiness. Whilst it would make more sense for him to move, he’s not sure. Can anyone offer any advice or are we generally doomed?
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Gardening71 · 21/06/2020 16:54
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