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Is it normal for men to think about sex all the time? dh beating himself up about it.

(29 Posts)
WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 22:42:13

is it?

Limone Mon 24-Sep-07 22:44:46

Yes - according to my dp

WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 22:46:26

oh goody...100% are in agreement!

Rhubarb Mon 24-Sep-07 22:46:59

Mine doesn't. Depends on the age. Anyway, stop bloody boasting!

lornaloo Mon 24-Sep-07 22:48:17

Yes I think so, especially if you make him wait for weeks grin. Im an evil cow..hehe

Dp can turn anything I say into dirty words. The filthy so and so!!

stressteddy Mon 24-Sep-07 22:48:22

Mine does but only because he doesn't get any!

IsThereAnybodyOutThere Mon 24-Sep-07 22:49:28

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Ulysees Mon 24-Sep-07 22:51:02

yes it is, bf does. Ex dh didn't though but he was very unusual in that department.
I think about it a lot too as bf is in US but over here for 2 months in October wink

pinkbubble Mon 24-Sep-07 22:51:05




WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 22:51:17

we dont have it as often he likes - he could have min once a day, but neither infrequentky.

The issue really is that he is beating himself up about it.

kittywits Mon 24-Sep-07 22:54:48

envy envy mine doesn't EVER (sob)

IsThereAnybodyOutThere Mon 24-Sep-07 22:55:32

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Ulysees Mon 24-Sep-07 22:57:59

When I first read the title I thought he was beating something else wink blush

WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 22:58:42

um...i think because he is religous and i presume he thinks it means he is 'bad'. blush

I keep trying to reassure him that im sure most men do. Ive also told him to be pragmatic and if he is anyway, at least not be depressive as well!

feel a bit guilty, that if only i had more interest to do it more...

IsThereAnybodyOutThere Mon 24-Sep-07 23:01:20

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shimmy Mon 24-Sep-07 23:01:36

totally normal.

fgs tell the poor guy just to have a wank and stop torturing himself

EmsMum Mon 24-Sep-07 23:01:55

No not all the time. They have breaks to savour their own farts hmm.

Explains a lot about the state of the world.

WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 23:03:16

well...ejaculating (on his own!) would be a bad thing in so far as our religion is concerned.

WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 23:03:37

lol emsmum!

WantToBeAnonymous Mon 24-Sep-07 23:14:30

right, will show him this thread and hope it reassures him. thanks everyone!

HappyDaddy Wed 26-Sep-07 16:02:05

Course it is!

BarefootShirl Wed 26-Sep-07 16:57:12

Mine does, and providing he only actually does it with me then he can think about what/who he likes the rest of the time - I'm not big-headed enough to believe he never notices other women, and I don't believe that would be healthy anyway.

mytwopenceworth Thu 27-Sep-07 08:56:28

Mine doesn't think about it at all. Ever.

And he is also a normal human being.

Theclosetpagan Thu 27-Sep-07 08:58:58

Mine does - he doesn't tell me this but he's always admiring other women etc hmm.
I know that he likes brunettes with a bit of padding (so skinny women don't do it for him).
I am comforted by the fact that he does at least tell me who he fancies quite openly.

geekgirl Thu 27-Sep-07 09:15:53

dh does too hmm (thankfully not about sex with anyone other than me, it seems)

according to him it's not within his control and due to high testosterone levels hmm

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