My brain feels like soup right now so I apologise if this is incoherent. I can't quite figure out what is going through my DPs head, I'm not sure if this is gas lighting, or him trying to get out of trouble or what. He keeps lying about stupid tiny things. He'll do something I asked him not to and then blatantly lie about what I said. Or he'll get caught obviously doing something and then tell me he didn't. Not even things that would cause an argument or annoy me, but stupid small things. Why would he do that? I keep questioning myself even though I remember very clearly or there's no possible way what he's saying can be true. I could understand it more if it was something important, but these things are so, so small and insignificant. There are much bigger issues with our relationship, which I know would get a sea of "LTB" replies, it barely seems worth listing them.... I don't know how to find the strength to do it right now. Our kids are so small. I'm on maternity leave and he probably won't have a job soon due to covid. I dont earn enough for childcare. Everything feels like a hopeless mess. I have no idea how single parents afford to live.
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