Hi all,
I read a lot on here but haven’t posted in years. I’m after some advice to help a friend.
He’s married to his wife of 20 years, he’s been unhappy for a few years and started seeing someone else with the intention of leaving. It all came out and he said he told his wife he wanted to leave but was then convinced to stay and fix things. He’s just told me that he’s concerned as she’s intimated towards harming herself if he leaves. I don’t know what advice to give him, he now feels like he can’t leave because he feels responsible for her and wouldn’t be able to cope if he left and she did do something.
I’ve said that if she feels that way he needs to find her some support from the Dr or something but if he is serious about wanting to leave he can’t stay for that reason.
Thanks for any advice
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ConcernedFriend90 · 15/06/2020 18:06
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