My partner has recently started a new job, neither of us currently drive ( I was doing my lessons then corona happened! ) and he was originally getting a taxi to work. Now he’s worked there for around 3 months. He’ started getting a lift off someone from work he’d made friends with which obviously I thought helped a lot and I was quite happy to be saving money! He has to walk to meet this man, at first he told me it was just down the road by a couple of minutes so one night I told him I’ll walk with him to meet this man as I’ll pop to the shop (he does night shift). All of a sudden he told me he walks around 20 minutes to meet him and explained where it is, which isn’t the way he originally said at all. Thinking nothing of it I though ah it’s ok. A few weeks ago he’d had a drink on his night off and was going on about work. He started talking about some woman there. His eyes lit up and he wouldn’t stop going on about how funny she is etc... I thought she’s just a friend, obviously I won’t have a problem with friends lol. I added her on Facebook as she knows one of my best mates. She messaged my friend randomly asking why have I added her.. my friend replied you’re on my raffle page together that’s probably why. She then went on to say that I don’t have to worry about her ( i hadn’t said I was to anybody!). Anyway he told me (she also told my friend) she does the days there and they see each other for an hour before shop shuts... I’ve recently found out that she’s also on the night shift... last week my partner said that this man was having a week off work so he’d have to get taxis that week.. my friend had told me the week before that this girl was having that same week off. He got a lift on Thursday again and messaged me whilst at work saying ‘some girl at work said you added her on Facebook?’ I said ‘who?’ And he said ‘some (her name) girl’ I said ‘why does that matter?’ To which he didn’t reply. Something feels off. I feel as though he’s hiding something from me, she seemed worried when I had added her. The week off of work he spoke to me 24/7 at work (he told me he couldn’t have his phone out) now that this ‘man’ is back it’s back to barley anything! Also the way that he walks is right next to her house..? Am I over thinking? Could he really be getting lifts off her etc.. if he came to me and said that a girl at work offered him lifts and he assured me it was completely friendly I wouldn’t be too bothered...
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