I have nc as I don't want this to link to my usual posts.
I will start this by saying this event is so out of the ordinary for dh, he is usually a wonderful, respectful man and this is why I kindly ask that those who would recommend I LTB off the cuff please bear in mind I am fragile at the moment and don't want to leave him at all.
Bit of relevant background. Dh and I have been together 6 and a half years, married 4, have a 21 month old toddler and I'm pregnant with dc2. I sleep naked.
Last night I get undressed and into bed. Obviously being pregnant by boobs are huge... But tender. I'm having a conversation with dh about something plain and simple, I can't even remember what and he completely ignores me and leans In to bite my nipple. When I push his head away and ask him what he's doing he says "sorry they're just so big". I hadn't given any sign of wanting sex.
Anyway, I had got into bed after previously feeling nauseous all evening and dh knew this. The conversation wasn't remotely sexual either.
I got up and went in the other room and had a little cry. Dh came through about 15 minutes later apologing seemingly sincerely and saying he wanted me to know he wasn't in bed and brushing it off but thinking about what he had done and that he didn't know why he had but knew this was no excuse. He offered to sleep in the other room so I could have our bed etc.
Today he has again apologised and said he doesn't know what to do. He wishes it didn't happen, doesn't know why it did etc.
I just can't shake the icky feeling it gave me. I felt I needed to put clothes on right away and in a usually open household I felt I wanted to dress and undress in private today.
My question is how can I shake this feeling and move past this? It was clearly an error of judgement which is out of character for him. Will distance from the event be the cure?
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Help me get over this one off by dg
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Bulldogpig · 14/06/2020 13:59
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