I popped out yesterday afternoon for an hour to pick up a book from my mum and say hello. I got back about 4.45. I asked DP what he wanted for dinner and he said he didn't mind and that he was going out and I could eat without him. I didn't know he was out and I asked when he was going and basically it was then. He hadn't mentioned this too me at all. Fine.
I cook dinner and eat it. I sort the baby out put him to bed and then I cleared up the kitchen. By 8 pm I hadn't heard from him so got ready for bed (nothing else to do). At 9 I start the dishwasher and go to bed. He still wasn't home by 10 and I woke up gone 11.30 and he is downstairs with the TV on not watching on his phone. He eventually comes up gone 1.30. I was needed to feed the baby and I notice that his dinner is in the fridge untouched. I am guessing he had dinner at the friends or didn't eat. He has moaned at me for not making much effort with cooking etc and so I am making more. He rarely thanks me and I have ditched the dinner this morning as it won't keep. If I'd known I would have just had beans on toast instead of stressing about making dinner whilst sorting out a tired baby who also needed to be fed. AIBU to be annoyed.
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WastedNights · 14/06/2020 06:54
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