I was falling asleep on the sofa and DP waltzes through asking me what I think of his new boxer shorts that he's wearing. I knew he was trying to entice for sex but I've been feeling down in the dumps today and I'm not in the mood.
I told him they look nice and then closed my eyes again. He comes back through in another new pair a few minutes later and says "what about these ones?"
I said yes they're nice too. Closed my eyes again.
Shortly after that I sensed somebody looming over me and as I open my eyes he pounces on me, naked from the waist down. He took me by surprise and it startled me.
He thinks it's sexy/funny whereas I don't. I was raped 5 years ago which he does know about.
I asked what he thinks he's doing and he laughed it off and said he was giving me a cuddle because he noticed I was falling asleep. Bullshit.
He clearly thought I'd appreciate being startled and jump his bones.
This is not ok is it, I'm not being precious?
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AIBU to be seriously annoyed with what DP has just done
101stNC · 13/06/2020 21:23
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