He moved back in again. It's been nothing but shouting.
My dog weed under the table and he told me but I've been out all day. I just made dinner. I was tired. I just ignored it tbh.
30 mins later he gets up shouting that it's my fucking dog. My fucking responsibility. I just wait for him to do it (I take his dog out every morning at 6am whilst he snores!)
A while later I was in the kitchen. He's all 'what's wrong?'
I said I'm sick of being shouted at. Who else in your life would you speak to like that? Your mum. Xyz? Friend?
No. None of them
But you speak to me like that. I don't deserve to be shouted at.
He srarts shouting again. I say you're doing it now.
I then said you're just like your dad. I shouldn't have said it. He hates his dad. But he is. When he was around all he did was shout and make everyone uncomfortable
Well that was it.
I'm a moron. A fucking lazt cunt.
All the usual
I can't do it anymore.
I hated being on my own. I hated it.
I didn't cope well
But I can't live like this
My kids hear it all.
Constantly.
Yes they're his kids.
I don't want my sons thinking you speak to women that way.
I don't want my daughter to think being spoken to like that is normal.
I can't tell him to go now
He will kick off. I need time to preparehe has somewhere to go.
He still has his rental from last time he leeft
Please don't judge me for trying again with him. I was so lonely but this is not right
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Please, help me leave him. For good.
Skefalent · 08/06/2020 19:40
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