Over the last couple of weeks I don't seem to be able to do anything without it annoying my husband. He is permanently grumpy and dissatisfied with everything; little habits (which are probably annoying, but everyone has those including him!), things I say, ideas I have - everything is wrong. We are abroad and still in a stricter lock down than the UK which is hard on all of us - our home is small and the country is hot so everyone is feeling annoyed with that and a bit fed up of course.
He is never irritable with our children, only with me. In the last few days he has not been affectionate either - the normal before-sleep cuddle type affectionate that is normal for us. I don't believe he is having an affair; he is never secretive with devices or his passwords/computer, even before lockdown he's quite introverted so he was never out at times I wouldn't expect, he also works in a very male-dominated industry. He's a very black and white person and I don't even think lying would occur to him.
I wonder if he is a bit depressed as we are a long way from home, and the coronavirus thing has trapped us here when we should have been visiting home this summer. I don't really know what to do - whether just to stay quiet and hope it blows over or try and push him to talk, although he's not one to respond well to that really.
Not sure how anyone can help really, just any similar experiences or advice would be welcome. We've always had a happy marriage till now - we're happy to give each other space and have never really argued more than a handful of times. We enjoy our children (5 and 7) and neither are difficult or particularly stress-inducing beyond the normal for their age!
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Everything I do is annoying my husband
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Ploughingthrough · 07/06/2020 14:27
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