I'm usually a very affectionate person but somehow have ended up with a emotionally barren man who isn't affectionate with me only with his children. Anyway I've learnt to live with it and we still had a good sex life. Since the last stages of pregnancy and having our baby our sex life has suffered. But we occasionally do have sex and it is ok. Last night I was feeling a bit better (have been suffering with PNA) and so tried to be affectionate and loving... Well it was met with "this is weird, what are you doing". I think he wanted to get back to his phone so I moved away and he said "no stay and sit with me". I did for a bit but just felt uncomfortable so went to bed. I know in the morning he'll try it on with me as he does pretty much every day. But I've sort of realised that he made it weird last night by telling me it was weird and I can't say I was over bothered but more just "why am I still with you". I hope that last bit makes sense. My head is a bit of a mess and I just can't seem to separate my feelings about it all. Mostly I just sort of felt nothing towards him and sad again I put myself about there to only be rejected for a mobile phone and being told what I was doing was weird.
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Rejected last night - he said it was weird
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AffectionatelyDismissed · 07/06/2020 05:06
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