I fell out of love with my DH about five years ago. We’ve muddled along since.
He isn’t abusive. He pulls his weight. He couldn’t be better with the children.
He has told me he loves me maybe 3 times since we got married. Only when I ask him if he does. I used to tell him I did but gave up when I got literally silence back. Now I don’t love him. I want to feel loved and wanted.
Sex is irregular and ends up with me having a panic attack as it feels like a violation.
He knows I am unhappy but brushes it under the carpet. Splitting would devastate the DCs.
WTF do I do?
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Five years of misery
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MagdaS · 06/06/2020 23:09
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