Hi everyone,
I'm 28 and an only child. My parents divorced when I was young and went on to find other relationships. In recent years they are both single again and increasingly look to me for companionship.
I recently returned home after living abroad for 4 years. I loved where I lived and only left because I didnt see a very good economic future myself. Financially I am much better off. While abroad I saw my parents 2 or 3 times a year and kept in touch during the week. My dad was much more distant and our relationship suffered.
Now I am back in the same city everything has changed. They each separately contact me every day and if I dont reply to a family whatsapp for a couple of days I am asked if everything is ok
I am struggling because I love my parents but am wondering if I should reconsider living closeby. I dont seek the type of close relationship they want with me.
What can I do without making them feeling unloved and like i dont care?
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Lizzie523 · 05/06/2020 22:02
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