I’m 20 weeks pregnant and my partner of 3 years started being very protective over his phone so I snooped and found out he’s been calling and messaging another woman. He’s deleting the messages so I can’t see what he’s talking about but she’s in his recent contacts on what’s app saved under a mans names (I can see their profile picture she’s not a man) and I can see from his call log they’ve been calling each other.
Just before I found out I was pregnant he had done the same thing. I only took him back because I was pregnant. I was told I would never be able to conceive children naturally so having an abortion was never an option for me. I’ve had a terrible pregnancy so far I’ve been bed ridden with HG and we haven’t been intimate since I’ve been pregnant so that’s obviously why he’s looking elsewhere. He acts like the doting partner and has been doing a lot for me lately all whilst talking to another woman behind my back.
I haven’t even told him what I’ve found because although I hate to admit it I need him right now. I can’t function because of the sickness I need someone to help with the bills, shopping, cooking, cleaning etc but I just want him away from me! I can’t stand sleeping in the same bed as him knowing what I know and can’t tell him to leave because I wouldn't manage on my own right now. My job is also on the line now and the stress and worry is just getting on top of me.
I’m panning to stay with him until the baby is born then tell him it’s over and somehow try to have a healthy co parent relationship with him.
I was wasn't pregnant he would be long gone! Am I crazy for not saying anything now?
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I’m pregnant he’s talking to another woman
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sweetpot · 04/06/2020 19:54
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