I've NC for this, I don't want it linked to my other account.
My childhood was complicated, I lived in a privileged family but experienced financial and emotional abuse from my dad. Despite having money, my mum and sister lived mostly in poverty.
I have been working with an amazing counsellor who had me read a short book from the freedom project about the effect of abuse on children. Up until that point I had never categorised my experience as abuse but she's helped me to see that's what it was. I feel very uncomfortable being labelled a 'victim' or a 'survivor', in fact I want to move past this and cut off that time of my life. I don't want my father's actions to define my life.
We are very low contact and I understand now that he will never acknowledge the pain he caused or work towards fixing it. If possible, could anyone recommend any books I could read that will help me process this and move past it please? I know I have more work to do with my counsellor but I would like to help myself in her corona, social distanced absence.
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Getoverit20 · 03/06/2020 21:45
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