I've met this guy (on an online dating app) and we've had a couple of outside SD 'dates' where we've met up for a drink in the sun in a local park.
We haven't touched or kissed etc.
Partly because of SD and partly because (I don't think) there is any chemistry (although we've never kissed etc, but I don't fancy him either).
He messages me saying he fancies me and complimenting me.
He has now messaged me asking me to come watch a movie in his room (he is a student in halls).
I don't want to ghost him, but I'm happy never to see him again, what do I reply?
I know this is a silly question and I should know the answer, but he called me cold (in the context of me talking about my last relationship - and I guess I am - in that I can walk away and never look back (I don't think this is a bad thing).
What should my reply be?
I don't want to be a dick, just don't want to see him again.
I have messaged him that I don't think there is a spark between us (which he replied we wouldn't know until we kissed etc, but I don't believe that!)
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runningon · 01/06/2020 18:21
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