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what's the longest you've waited to first sleep with someone in a relationship?

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pinkbubbles · 21/09/2007 16:49

mine was 4 weeks. i'm quite proud of that personally

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RubyRioja · 21/09/2007 16:50

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pinkbubbles · 21/09/2007 16:51

wow really? that puts my 4 weeks to shame!

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motherinferior · 21/09/2007 16:51

Two days, I think.

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Joash · 21/09/2007 16:51

My DH - 3 months, and then I went for him because I was fed up of waiting for him to make the first move. I have a bit of a (ahem) 'checkered past' (I put it about a fair bit) and wasn't used to a bloke who wasn't alays trying to get into my undies. I was beginning to think that he was perhaps gay - Turned out he was a virgin and wasn't too sure how to make a move [.

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munz · 21/09/2007 16:53

think about 4 months was with H. don't know why I made him wait thou! lol.

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milliways · 21/09/2007 16:56

Through 2 years until we were married

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PanicPants · 21/09/2007 17:01

About a week, and that was only because i had my period

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harrisey · 21/09/2007 18:09

I held out for marriage. Really.

We were together for 4.5 years.

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Tinker · 21/09/2007 18:18

couple of hours

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Tinker · 21/09/2007 18:18

Oh, sorry, just read thread title properly [shame]

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FrannyandZooey · 21/09/2007 18:19

I think I did wait about 10 days once

that is crap isn't it

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FrannyandZooey · 21/09/2007 18:19

oh and with dp waited ruddy MONTHS but that was because he was up the other end of the country so we had technical problems

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LadySanders · 21/09/2007 18:40

my dp spent 3 months asking me out, me refusing, finally went out with him for dinner, discovered he was wonderful, took him home to bed after main course, he was a bit shell shocked at the fast turnaround...

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Pinkchampagne · 21/09/2007 18:44

It was 7 months into my relationship with ex H, but that was because he was on AD's at the time, and they caused him to have a little problem there!

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LadyOfWaffle · 21/09/2007 18:49

Er, ex doesn't count so I guess about 3 months with DH Shameful.

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Lizzer · 21/09/2007 18:50

A week, and it was a very hard and long one (sorry)

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Lizzer · 21/09/2007 19:01

Don't let me kill the thread on that terrible pun, pleeaasse??!!

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PSCMUM · 21/09/2007 21:26

o god, the longest, about 2 months, with first ever boyfriend when i was 14.

with DH, i waited about 3 hours. he is very good.

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PregnantGrrrl · 22/09/2007 02:28

about 24hrs...but that was 9yrs ago, and i have married him sicne!

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ghosty · 22/09/2007 03:13

About a month. Interestingly that was the guy that ended up being my DH ....

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Boredveryverybored · 22/09/2007 03:14

Very first relationship 1 month because I was a month from my 16th b'day and he was adament we couldn't do 'it' until I was 16! lol

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Mrs34USA · 22/09/2007 03:18

I think I can remember lasting a whole night once. My (now) DH was about 3 and a half hours. I moved into his house that night

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