First time poster and very emotional atm. I’m in my mid 20s, he’s older than me by 8yrs. We meet through work and we just connected and had a great relationship. We’ve been together nearly 6yrs now and have a beautiful 18m DD. I’m not going to try brush of it but I’ve felt bored before I was pregnant and even more so now. I used to work FT, since having DD I’ve become a STAH, I don’t have mum friends. We used to do so much together and actually talk and laugh, not anymore. Everything we talk about just seems to be about his work, news, programmes or football. I just feel we don’t connect anymore. I’ve tried telling him before and he’s said he’ll try harder but he just hasn’t. Everything we do, I organise. It’s like he puts no effort into anything and when I challenge all he says is I’m tired, I go to work you just stay home. He’s even started calling me lazy. I don’t think I’m lazy I just think I’m depressed atm. Ive gained weight and I don’t feel appreciated or loved. I don’t think I care for the relationship anymore. I have to add he is nice and a great dad but just seems so unbothered in terms of our relationship.
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