So before lock down I went on 2 dates with a really nice bloke who literally ticks all my boxes and is perfect “on paper” and think he’d potentially make a great boyfriend.. last night we met for a walk and a bottle of Prosecco and we did end up having another kiss!
However, although I get on really well with him and he has everything what I’m looking for, I just don’t feel that sexual chemistry! Like when we’ve kissed I’m not left wanting more, I just feel a bit... indifferent?
What makes it harder is that he told me he feels such an amazing connection with me! So it’s not even like I can say I don’t think we have that spark because he clearly thinks we do and he’s made it clear he’s really into me!
Because I’m so unsure is that my answer? I don’t want to mess him around at all because I did pull away last time and he said last night please don’t send me that dreaded text let’s just take things slow and see how things go... but I dunno I feel like I want those butterflies and the firework feeling when you kiss!
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How important to you is that spark/chemistry?
SunshineOverStress · 30/05/2020 07:51
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