2 weeks before lockdown I found out dh was having an affair, he moved out and we told our eldest 2 the reason why (keeping the details very simple).
This has caused so much heartache to us all, dh was constantly apologising and trying to do so much for us all and slowly him and the older children were getting a decent relationship back until the weekend just gone.
Him and dd were in the car together and dd saw the other woman's name on his call list and was devastated. He has outright denied it was her name saying it someone similar from work but as I said to him she has no reason to lie and he has every reason.
He has said all along he hasn't spoken to her and tried to go out of his way to prove it but I've obviously had my suspicions the whole time.
He was so angry and defensive it just confirmed it even more for me and now the children are devastated as I don't think they had even entertained the idea that she could continue on the scene. They knew he kissed someone else and I think they thought that it was it and now it's even harder as he's saying they got it wrong and still won't admit it so there's no trust there.
What do I do? Or rather what should xh be doing? This situation has been so magnified as well as there's no normal distractions. It's just so hard and sad.
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Looking for advice for my children, xh and the other woman.
longhaulstress · 28/05/2020 09:06
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