Did you feel frightened to make the move?
I have lived in my current town 30 years and this house for 16. It's what I know, it's where I feel safe. However, they're the only positives. It's a small town, one I don't engage in, too many bad memories growing up and marriage breakdown (he lives around the corner with his girlfriend), with his family all around. I don't have many friends, just ones to keep in contact with to see how each of us are. Its been something I have been thinking about for a long time, I dream about a fresh start. One where I walk out of my front door and I'm not reminded of something or worried I may bump into anyone I don't want to.
I don't wander too far because of this and the thought of engaging in events here, turns my stomach. I usually drive to a destination to shop, walk the dog or grab a coffee.
I have been looking out of area, something affordable. It's about 20 miles away, near where I work. I would definitely keep the girls at their current school so have to commute each day. They're years 8 and 11 (Sep). I wouldn't want to disrupt their schooling and friends. They have out of school activities in which they will still see their friends (again, travel to them).
The one thing I worry about, not sure if it's a silly worry but feeling safe. My girls happily walk our dog alone, also we live alone without any worries. I don't know why, that thought make me anxious. Will I feel settled/safe somewhere else?
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Has anyone moved to a new town as a single parent? Were you scared?
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CakesRus3 · 28/05/2020 07:47
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