I don't know what to do.. I'm a teen mom, my beautiful son is 4 months
The fathers involved
The father and I have been together 2+ years.
When we first met.. after a couple months we got into a really big fight and I'm ashamed to admit I slapped him- i felt genuinely awful and cried apologizing constantly for days because I genuinely did regret it immediately as I've never hit anyone.
After that..we started arguing more and he became verbally and physically abusive..it got to the point where he would take me into a place nobody could see and choke me.
Then a big fight at school broke out- i was pregnant and I shoved him away from me because i was scared and teachers got involved .. he chose my best friend over me then decided to come back, I love him so i took him back but he made me work for it, every day i had to beg. If we fought he'd pull out a ring or something and say "i was going to give u this today but f u" and chuck it
He bought me a beautiful heart necklace but a few months later ripped it off my neck and smashed it to pieces because he was mad at me, and had to "teach me a lesson"
When i was pregnant at first we fought and he squeezed my stomach.
After it stopped, he went in anger management, over the summer
And became a new man, no arguing or anything and when our son was born everything was perfect- but lately we've been arguing- he calls me names and makes me feel like shit, I always am the one crying and if i step up he hurts himself because he knows i care about him. I threaten to call his parents or cops or try he runs- he's extremely fast, unbelievably. But after everything he always apologizes..
The other day he was over for a couple days and on the last day we fought and he was rough picking up our son, i stood up and got mad at him and he pushed me back bu the neck- he gave me our son and I curled up around my baby crying, protecting him, out of anger my bf threw his vape at me, it bruised and turned black and green (i have picture proof) , I screamed at him calling him a monster and just like his father, he broke down crying suddenly apologizing, I know something is mentally wrong with him and he needs help, his father hung himself. I love him to much to turn him in because I know he'll attempt something that will either hurt him or someone else- he's to smart.. someone please help i don't know what to do- I don't know how much more i can handle but I know I can't leave my son alone- it's so hard and I feel worthless despite knowing how much I'm worth..
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piperm · 27/05/2020 02:42
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