Over the last few years there have been trust issues with dh surrounding drugs (I'm not just talking about a bit of weed) been together over 20 years but our relationship has taken a massive downturn over this.
Asked him to leave around a month ago, he went then regretted it and promised it would all stop so he came back on the agreement there would be no more drugs or lies and that I could check his phone if I was ever in doubt. Something wasnt quite right yesterday so got up this morning and took his phone (hate having to do this) he then came charging downstairs shouting about me stealing his phone? Pointed out that he had said before that this would be ok as he had nothing to hide. Was just hoping for a little insight into what other people would do? Is this a huge sign hes up to no good or have I been out of order. Actually feel like I'm losing my mind and have nobody in real life to speak to. Thanks ahead for any replies
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Laurry · 26/05/2020 08:29
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