Just wanting to get some advice on a tricky situation here. I’m living in Singapore at the moment with my husband who is from the UK. My mum had come to visit me here and because of the covid situation, she is not able to fly back to her own house as there isn’t a direct flight. She lives in malaysia and all incoming passenger needs to be quarantine in Kuala Lumpur for 2 weeks before taking connecting flight elsewhere in the country. She is not an avid traveler and she is only a small lady. In view of the recent increase in robbery, mugging etc due to government lockdown and also the risk of catching the infection during travelling, I’ve advised her to stay with us until the situation is less risky to travel. This is coming to 3 months and my husband is getting irk due to this and is pushing for me to send my mum away despite knowing very well my concerns and thoughts. He also pushed for us to have an “open conversation” about when she is likely to leave. Many of the times, I’ve persuaded him to let things go as situation remained unclear at the moment. However, because of the pressure from him, I’ve mentioned to my mum about the fact that I might need to get her a separate abode for the mean time and this has greatly upset her and also makes things sour. I can’t help but thinking that he is selfish and only cares about himself and cannot our up a little sacrifice for me and my mum in view of the pandemic that we are experiencing. How can I ask him to stop being selfish and be a little considerate and instead of feeling uncomfortable with my mum, maybe to try to forge a connection with her? My mum is not even a nasty person. She just have a habit of making passing comment and because of this my husband thinks that he “lives in a prison where he doesn’t have freedom”! Any advice would be appreciated
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