I think I know what you'll say. However just want to check I'm not being unreasonable.
I have a FWB relationship, probably more than that as we are very close but I've always made it clear I don't want a relationship (not long out a sham of a marriage). Recently (probably because of the current situation/lockdown) I've realised its not more hassle than its worth and I'm happier alone. Plus also not stringing him along when he's wanting a more full on relationship.
However I feel guilty because he often refers to me as the only thing/person which keeps his mental health right. That's pressure I don't need. Plus financially he is struggling and I also feel guilty because I can afford a few treats and feel bad spending my money on them when he is struggling to pay his bills.
Is it selfish to want to focus on myself? I'm not used to it and struggling with not giving him (or anyone) everything I have
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Rainydayss · 22/05/2020 16:19
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