We’re still living together 😬
Financially we can’t move out at the moment and I need money out of our/his business to set my own business up, which I can’t have at the moment due to current financial insecurity. If I go down any other route he will drag his heels before I get it. He’d love for me to leave and go on benefits and be the big I am giving me money every week.
So I’m having to put up with his sulks and silences if I dare to ask him not do something that impacts me and the kids. I’ve worked really hard not to my anxiety overwhelm me and stay in an upbeat mood for the kids but he constantly does things that piss me off! Eg saying he will be home with the kids at 5:30 knowing that’s what time I’m putting dinner out for us all then his switches his phone off and comes in at 6:30 and the kids food is stale! He then said ‘i don’t want any dinner’ and fucked off to his man cave for the entire night! ( which is a blessing!)
He was slamming his bedroom door last night and I text him to please stopping slamming the door as it’s making the house shake - apparently it’s a fire door and it does that it’s self strange that I’ve never heard it like that before!
He’s just got up this morning and walked straight out and went to work. I rang him to talk to him about a development about one of Dds school and he’s ignored it. He’s dick!!
I feel like karate chopping him in the neck!
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Arrrrrrgh! My STBEH is a knob!!
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Tenminwait · 22/05/2020 09:49
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