Me and my dh have been together for 20 years. We have 5 children together and I'm currently pregnant with our 6th baby
Last November I discovered he had deleated messages from a female work collegue in facebook. I was suspecious as she'd called him in the spetember while he was at home and he'd regected her call as she'd called when I was in the room. His excuse for this was she must of called him by mistake. After I confronted him about the messages which were deleated in the November he promised he'd stop contact and never deleate anything else
This February I have discovered he's been calling and texting her nearly everyday for the last year (through my pregnancy with our 5th baby) and deleting all the texts and call logs. The calls can last up to an hour
I have confronted him and he says they're just friends and he's never had an affair but he's so secretive with his phone and has now put a pass code on it so I can't see.
I have no idea what to do now
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Husband deleting messages
Gemz125 · 19/05/2020 13:43
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