I’ll start by saying we’re not married, I just refer to him as my husband.
Long story short, happiest relationship ever until I had our first child. I suffered pnd, didn’t feel he pulled his weight etc so the arguments began & never really stopped. We don’t seem to agree on anything! Fast forward 4 years, I’m pregnant again, we’ve bickered constantly throughout the pregnancy & then a few months ago it’s like a switch has been flicked & he’s become someone I don’t know.
Always been very chilled out, now snappy & angry. Overreacts to everything, whenever I question it he tells me it’s my fault & ive “sent him” like it because I’ve been a bitch for years! (Throws my mental health battle at me)
He doted on me during my first pregnancy & this one I feel like he barely acknowledges I’m pregnant. Wouldn’t let me lift a finger last time but this time I’ve rearranged the whole house almost singlehandedly.
I’m just feeling so hurt & am due any day now & don’t feel this is the best environment for a new baby. I think we’ve grown apart. Whatever the reasons, it just feels too late to fix as we’ve “tried” so many times & within a day or 2 we’re back at square 1. He’s said some hurtful things tonight that make me feel there can’t ever be a way back now.
I just feel so lost & so trapped! I have no family & nowhere to go, no job, no money of my own. He refuses to leave for the kids sake, but this isn’t the life I want for my kids. I just can’t stop crying that things have got this bad & at this time. I don’t know what to do anymore.
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Somewhereovertherainbow85 · 16/05/2020 20:15
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