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Low Libido in lockdown

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Bells3032 · 15/05/2020 11:12

Anyone else experiencing a massive drop in their libido since lockdown started. DH and I have been together for 3 years, married for just under a year). We have always been a very "active couple" and we thought during lockdown we'd be all over each other. But it's been the opposite.

Usually I love dressing up in sexy underwear and waiting for him when he gets home from work, or sending naughty texts to him during the day or we go out for the night and he grabs me the moment we get through the door. But since lockdown obv none of this is happening.

We still have sex about every other day but it's always him initiating and me reluctantly agreeing. I still have a good time but no where near as hot and heavy as it used to be.

I am a bit anxious about vulnerable family members and missing my family who I am very close too. We are both still working but at home so in the same room all day although at different ends of the room.

Any recommendation on what to do to get my drive up. was thinking about ordering some naughty games etc but any recommendations for which ones?

Thanks