I've been with my partner 2.5 years and we had an amazing relationship until he got full custody of his daughter and she came to live with us in my home I share with my two older children. The issue is that I've been supportive and even had to have time off work to look after her so he could get her into playschool but now if I say anything about her that comes across in a negative way it starts an argument. My children have really struggled having his daughter around as they don't want to be playing with her all the time as there is a 5 year age gap between his daughter and my youngest. He used to be so attentive with her when he used to have her on a weekend and now all he does is sit her on an iPad with headphones in and he will watch TV and just lay on the sofa. I've suggested he teaches her to write her name etc but he says he will and doesn't. She's 3.5 and shouldn't be on an iPad all day surely. I just don't know what to do. Do I carry on and just hope the kids will tolerate eachother again or do I walk away? I appreciate it's lockdown but when I'm sitting down doing school work with my two it's so frustrating as he said he would do work with her.
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