Caught stalking a guy on facebook

[TwoOpenOneClosed]

I'm absolutely mortified, I accidently sent a message to his business facebook page last night thought I'd deleted it but have received a message from him this morning replying to it god how embarrassing
Please tell me I'm not the only one to have made myself look like a mad bunny boiler! I'm really not I was just really bored and pressed the wrong button 🙈

[OnlyJudyCanJudgeMe]

How do you “accidentally”message someone?
Do you know him in real life? If not, block him. Save making that mistake again!

[VettiyaIruken]

You typed a message and meant to delete it but pressed send instead?
What did your message say?

[UpToonGirl]

What did the message say? Cringing for you!

[TwoOpenOneClosed]

No I didn't type a message there were 3 of those pre filled question buttons and I accidently pressed one and it sent before I realised what I'd done and then it was too late 🤐

[copycopypaste]

That's not too bad then. It's not like you said you'd like to see him naked or something like that and his business partner picked it up

[Notapheasantplucker]

Ahh, I'm cringing for you too😖

What did he seem like in his reply? Normal?

[UpToonGirl]

What type of business? Maybe you need to play along and act like you meant to send the question. Would the guy automatically think you were stalking him?

[Namechangex10000]

I’d have to brazen it out with a lie!!! Oooh I didn’t realise this was YOU, I need xyz service....and then move

[ChandlerIsTheBestFriend]

So you just respond and pretend it was a genuine enquiry. Surely he’ll think that’s what it was so no reason to be mortified?

[copycopypaste]

If he's fitting fake grass or a builder you could say you were looking for a friend or thinking if having work done. You're a bit buggered if he makes fetish latex gear for gay men tho

[SpillTheTeaa]

Right, pack all your belongings up and move to another country.

[secretrugbyfan]

"You're a bit buggered if he makes fetish latex gear for gay men tho"

But not as buggered as said men in said gear....

[KonTikki]

Secret
Like your sense of humour 😂

[Ernieshere]

[franfine]

But does he know you?

[TwoOpenOneClosed]

The reply was basically answering my 'query' which he sent me knowing full well it was me having fucked up 100% as I already know the answer and really don't need to ask him on facebook
I just can't stop cringing that he knows what I've done oh I wish I could pack my bags and leave the country @SpillTheTeaa

[TwoOpenOneClosed]

Sorry should say yes he knows me we had a bit of a fwb relationship until he ended it a couple of weeks ago and we have been in contact with each other since
At least I don't have to face him ever again 😐

[incognitomum]

Do you have a child/cat/monkey you could blame it on?

[NoMoreDickheads]

I would just not mention it and he mightn't think much of it, he'd probably realize it's a mistake/bug. x

[TwoOpenOneClosed]

Yeah I could blame the cat he always walks across the keyboard when I'm trying to type something I think you're onto something @Incognitomum 🤔 or I could just go incognito like you for the rest of my life 🤣

[Reginabambina]

If you’ve already slept with him and decided not to pursue a relationship then why does it matter?

[MsAdorabelleDearheartVonLipwig]

Are you sure it wasn’t an automated response?

[Isitsixoclockalready]

I'd just forget it and move on.

[Goatinthegarden]

Brazen it out fully and say something like, ‘oops silly me, was just looking for a decent picture of you to show my girlfriends my most recent FWB. Definitely gave myself away there!’

[Weallhavevalidopinions]

If you had a FWB type arrangement until a few weeks ago then perhaps he will be thinking you want to resume the FWB thing again.

Why mortified? You have done the FWB thing and only ended a few weeks ago. As someone else said - 'what does it matter?' you and he have both been there and seen it all .... I originally thought this was someone new who didn't know you well and you hadn't slept with which would be mortifying (perhaps)