Friend has a dysfunctional relationship with her boyfriend. Over the last year I have supported her through all the ups and downs. The arguments, her insecurities, his disappearances, his cheating etc etc.
At the beginning of lockdown it came to a head and he beat her up, badly.
The police came, he left and she took out an injunction against him. I have been there for her every day, checking on her, giving her support, boosting her self esteem, reassuring her she has done the right thing.
Then the other day her teenage son shared a video on Instagram and low and behold guess who is sitting in the garden all cosy.
I text her and she did the oh you caught me he's so sorry, we are just talking etc etc.
I'm so cross with her for letting him back in, I feel like I can't keep supporting her if she is going to continue this roller coaster life. I know it's not her fault and she is under his control but it's draining.
I told her I'm upset and that I'll always be there if she's in trouble but that I can't watch it unfold all over again.
Is that selfish on my part?
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She took him back, I can't keep supporting
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BlackHillsofDakota · 10/05/2020 08:46
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