My husband.
We broke up for 18 months and have got back together.
He saw someone a few times.
Once I went to his and saw them together.
I have really, really low self confidence. Have had kids. Am very, very overweight due to emotional eating and medication
She... well, was the complete opposite of me. Very slim, blonde, younger, no kids so no sagging or stretchmarks.
I find it hard when we have sex to relax. I keep seeing his hands on her tiny waist.
We've talked and he's reassured me but the image is there. Burned into my mind.
I've always felt like I'm not good enough. And now I think he's had a proper woman and he has to go back to me.
I'm trying to lose weight but I'll still have stretched out skin, sagging breasts, extreme overhang (not a cut pooch. A full apron of skin)
I just feel so shit.
I know not many people will have seen their husband with another woman so probably not asking for experiences but maybe a way to build my confidence? :(
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I saw him in bed with someone else.
DuckingHeckers · 07/05/2020 22:29
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