2 years ago I met a guy who I instantly clicked with. We quickly became best friends. We’re both married.
Over the 2 years we got closer and I ended up confiding in him a lot about my marital problems.
He said a lot of stuff to me that made it sound like he had strong feelings. Told me he’d never been in love, etc. We had a couple of secret meetings. We text every other day and he phones me about every other week when he’s alone.
Then we had a chat yesterday and I asked him about home. He said that he wouldn’t say he’s happy in his marriage but he’s content.
Basically in my view he has hot meals, washing done, 100% access to his kids, regular sex.
I feel like such a fool. I fell for this man who is content at home.
My heart really really hurts.
How can I move forwards?
We are still best friends.
He possibly has no idea how I feel about him.
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Have I been a complete fool?
Lovelost34 · 06/05/2020 08:03
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