Hi guys,
This is a weird one and I hope it doesn't come across as selfish or bad. I am in a situation I didn't think I would ever be in and I am oddly struggling with it. I am trying to decide between two relationships and who I would be happier with.
I was in a relationship with a guy for two years (I'll call him T) who travelled a lot for work and it didn't work out, we never quite managed to commit or form a 'real' relationship, which I found quite hurtful and difficult and eventually ended it.
Then I met a new guy who is very different to T, he is more reliable and more affectionate but I found myself thinking about T a lot and feeling very guilty for that. T got back in touch and I met him for a friendly drink before lockdown started and it all felt so familiar. G (new boy) is very loving and kind, so I'm not sure why I'm selfishly thinking of T. T has offered to start things again if I would be happy to do so and has apologised a lot for his previous behaviour and how he is now going to be travelling less.
Obviously, if I go back to T it could all go wrong again. I was quite hurt the last time it ended and am wondering is it worth the risk to either of us. Any advice would be appreciated xx
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Catladyireland · 04/05/2020 17:57
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