My brother had an affair with OW for over a year. Has now left SIL and kids and has moved in with OW. I feel he had treated SIL appalingly.
I believe he has behaved really badly and told him so. I've also told him I will never have anything to do with OW as she was very much culpable in enabling his behaviour.
Our relationship is hanging by a thread tbh and I've made it clear she is not welcome at our house. Ever.
He is starting to ignore my boundaries and is trying to insert her into our lives, he has tried to bring her over to 'pop round'. I've put a stop to it as we are on lockdown for one (I've got kids)! I think they are being really selfish right now travelling round as they please. But also because she is simply not welcome.
I am so angry right now and need to vent.
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Wider Family Fallout from Affair
Nattyjackie · 03/05/2020 10:21
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