I am in my thirties. I have one brother. I am so sad about all of this.
As adults me and my brother were close. But when we were children he did a bit of inappropriate touching, that I remembered.
I said this to him as an adult, and he literally didnt speak to me for five years.
My life was actually alot worse without him in those five years, as he is my only sibling.
Due to Coronavirus, he has decided to let the argument go, and he has come back to talk to me. I am happy that we are closer again.
However, every time that I am on the telephone with him he has said something a bit sexual that makes me feel uncomfortable.
For example on one phone call he said that he had been reading in the news about a transgender man who had wanted to get his genitals waxed in a female salon, and this is in the news.
Then in the last phonecall I made, he said that Donald Trump would probably get re elected again because Joe Biden is being accused of sexual assault in the news.
He always talks about something sexual and makes me uncomfortable. He just IS mildly sexually abusive. I know if I say to him to not talk about sex - he wont speak to me for years.
I don't know what to do, It seems like my options are:
Accept my brother being mildly sexually abusive and making me uncomfortable
Or
Have no sibling at all.
I hate my life.
I just dont know what to do. I could just cut him off totally, but I actually really struggled with no family at all, and want to maintain the connection.
Any advice?
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Annamaria14 · 02/05/2020 17:45
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