Hi all,
This is my first ever post so bear with me. I split up with my former partner a few years ago due to his affair and emotional abuse (he had sex with OW in our home a few times a week for a year while I was at work, told insane lies about me, made me feel I was going mad etc etc.) We have a DS (4) and weekend handovers at this time aren't ideal but I'm making the best of it. It might seem trivial but when he comes round to drop off DS he always asks if my family are doing okay, asks about my mum and sisters (I live with DS on my own and obviously can't see them for a while). I hate that he does this. Ideally I'd do grey rock and just ignore him but I can't seem to do that and end up answering. Does anyone have any tips on how to blank him/change the subject? It's really starting to annoy me and I find myself brooding on why I answered, especially when it's him coming round to pick up DS and I'm on my own. Grateful for any advice.
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Dealing with ex-partner at handover
WomanintheHighCastle · 30/04/2020 18:15
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