have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. He’s 14 years older than me and has a daughter who is 3. His ex has always been spiteful and horrible towards me writing nasty things on fb (she doesn’t even know me) stalking me, and I feel like she’s still in love with my boyfriend. She has in the past sent me some horrible messages. She doesn’t want me to be around his daughter anymore and she is trying to come in between our relationship. This is really upsetting and a lot for me to deal with as I’ve had to put up with all the crap from her and his life for the past 2 years. It’s starting to affect my health it puts me down I feel anxious and overthink things and I’m not happy sad I don’t know what to do anymore? When he goes to pick his daughter up/see her I always feel on edge knowing that he’s there with her and I feel he still really likes him. I put things in my head of what could be happening. I get very down and I’m finding it all so hard and don’t think I can carry on doing this anymore as much as I love himsad he doesn’t understand how I feel and doesn’t see things how I do I tell him it hurts me and he says I understand I won’t do it again.
Please give me some advice
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14 Year age gap, 2 years together and his kid
Izzy2015 · 27/04/2020 02:06
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