I’m late twenties, my husband is late thirties and we have 2 kids.
As far as I know my husband has never had an actual affair, however I’ve caught him a couple of times messaging ex’s (this was about 5 years ago, we have been together for 9). He also went through a period of time on webcam sites and spent a significant amount of money and he also paid for a subscription on Snapchat where he would get sent videos and apparently the package he paid for included chat. These things were 2/3 years ago but I can’t seem to get over it still.
Each and every time he done something in the past I never felt strong enough to leave him and I always kick myself for that.
Anyways, whenever he’s sitting on his phone I just constantly think he’s up to something. I check his phone whenever I get a chance. I find myself sitting watching him on his phone trying to figure out if he could be speaking to someone. I feel as if I’m going abit mental to be honest
I’ve spoken to him about this in the past and it always just ends up being awkward and we don’t really speak for a while so that’s what’s stopping me from bringing it up again.
Any advice??
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So fed up of feeling this way
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Letsgetphysical88 · 26/04/2020 13:15
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