I've put this in relationships because it affects the whole family.
We arrived back from holiday on the saturday, sunday night DP had a call from boss to work away for the week. This is not the norm. He has done the odd night before. DP left on the tuesday (clothes, us not ready for the monday). He came back on friday evening and said he was also on call for the weekend. The phone rang 5/6 times over the weekend, each time it was greeted with a sigh from both of us. DP managed to farm the jobs out and pulled in a few favours so we could enjoy our weekend as a family. He had to go again on monday, so is away all this week as well. It looks like the company will be asking him to do a 3rd week, which he is adamant he's not going to. The icing is, the company are paying digs and breakfast, he has to pay for an evening meal and claim back (which we won't see in his pay until 2 weeks later), and nothing else except his normal hourly rate. My question to you is what do you think he should be receiving for working away, what allowances are normal. We are really missing him (DS1 nearly 6 is bed wetting, and has never done this before), he is really missing us. He never agreed in any contract that he would work away and we think he should be paid a decent allowance/bonus.
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DP is working away, I think his company are taking the P*** (sorry quite long)
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Sixer · 12/09/2007 22:51
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