My sister is very young ( under 20 ) and has been staying at her boyfriends house most nights for the past year.
Whilst she was there my mum received a letter stating that my sister needs to self isolate for 12 weeks as she is considered high risk. She told her this on a phone call and sister agreed that she would isolate at my parents house and stay in the spare room, whilst my mum would provide her food etc from a distance.
Although she had been at boyfriends house since lockdown. She agreed that as she would be isolating for at least 12 weeks she would be better of at home with people who could care for her. Boyfriend is still working long hours.
The next day she was expected home . She called Mum crying saying she has changed her mind. Boyfriend doesn't want her gone for 12 weeks.
What the fuck!
He said she started lockdown at his house, so she has to stay there for the duration! He will break up with her if she returns to parents. And tell the police.
She could potentially get seriously ill as boyfriend is in contact with a lot of other people at work. He is only at home a few hours at a time.
He is always making her cry, insulting her and she's had some 'accidents' that really concern me.
What can I do/ say to help? Is she right to stay in one place where she started lockdown? Even with this abusive twit?
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emmielia · 08/04/2020 06:59
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