So my partner is both physically and emotionally abusive. There is not much I can do, I have involved social services (we have a child) and the police in the past, anyway that’s not the point of this post.
I live with constant accusations of infidelity (has never happened).
I’m a doctor in a hospital, my partner is a nursing student. I came home from work one day and she shows me a picture of a nurse working in my hospital. She claims this nurse told her that I have been hitting on another nurse at work. Which I know is not true, I actually avoid talking to others because I know the stress it causes me at home.
So I spend the next day getting abuse because I am “hitting on someone at work”.
I have a feeling that the entire story was fabricated so tell my partner I am making a formal complaint about this nurse. Then she finally admits that she made it up and she does not even know this nurse. I believe she has basically spent ages searching Facebook for a nurse that works in my department, saved the picture and made up this story.
Now she has backtracked and told me she knows another nurse who knows another nurse who works in my hospital who told her friend this story about me.
I know it sounds childish but you guys can't quite grasp how much stress I get put though when I am being accused of these things. I just feel that making up this stuff is so massively manipulative and really not cool.
I just feel this whole situation is unforgivable or am I reading too much into this and should I just let it go again?
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Am I over reacting, or is this just not cool?
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DocBob · 07/04/2020 22:25
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